Are Helicopter Parents Ruining a Generation?
Kids need to learn to be responsible and when parents enable their children to behave in an irresponsible manner they interfere with their child's growth and development.
hand wrote:Funny how someone can wind up a hostage on a train on which he was originally the conductor. Fortunately this usually only happens to the worst of us....
My dad's only vice was that he made me listen to way too many oldies and maybe he did a little too much weed on weekends, but this song stuck with me and the horrid little story told on this page somehow reminded me of this song. This song has also been covered by Metallica and Iron Maiden, but Jethro Tull does it best:
drdesert wrote:shadylady wrote:tronagirl wrote: So, obviously not wearing a mask is a pretty trivial issue compared to the other issues that this prominent member of the community has and for more on that you might check out some of the recent comments made in the NEIGHBORS thread which might help explain why many people say that the daughter is a wack job. Of course, this is all just speculation, but 2+2=4 as they say and so I'll leave that one alone....
Having reviewed the statements made in the NEIGHBORS thread, I'd say that there's a pretty obvious reason why the daughter might be a wack job! Girls who are molested by their fathers tend to have psychological problems. They also tend to be highly likely to make false allegations against other men. It's a coping mechanism. Although their thinking is dysfunctional and logically deficient by normal standards, they are trying to prove to themselves that a) other men are just as bad as daddy, and b) daddy's behavior is sort of normal and not so perverted after all when compared to the behavior of other guys. Obviously I'm doing a little bit of armchair psychoanalyzing here, but assuming what others have said and putting two and two together, I think what I've said is pretty plausible. Just as obviously, it's possible that others are mistaken in their assertions and in that case there are other possible explanations which might come to bear, but that's always the case when dealing with an incomplete and possibly inaccurate data set.
Making false allegations against other men is also a first step in gaining the nerve to turn daddy in. Daddy has no choice but to back his daughter to the hilt since he has to do everything he can to make sure his daughter does not turn against him. He's a hostage of his own perversion. He knows his daughter is making up stuff against the other man, but he can't confront his daughter because he knows that if he makes her mad that he's toast! It's one hell of a bind to be in, but he deserves it! It's only a matter of time....
shadylady wrote:drdesert: Or it could be that the father is protecting another adult male relative. Let's see there could be an uncle, grandfather, cousins, or even older siblings. In any case, the false accusation could just be a first step towards accusing the actual culprit. Quite often false accusations are made against easy targets because it's too painful to accuse the actual person who committed the molestation. It's sort of like accusation by proxy. Definitely not logical or reasonable, but something that an emotionally stunted person might do. I make no excuses for false accusers of any age, but there are common patterns which occur in these situations.
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....and of course people don't usually parade around in the nude and so the micropenis would be easily hidden.
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